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Funeral Services. Why I should I have one

October 31, 2023

Funeral services, deeply rooted in tradition across diverse cultures and beliefs, play a central role in the grieving process and the commemoration of a departed loved one. These gatherings bring together family and friends in a structured environment for expressing grief and navigating the emotional journey of loss, offering therapeutic solace.


Rituals have been with us since the beginning of time and funerals offer structure and meaning when confronted with the chaos of death, whether rooted in religious or cultural traditions.


Funerals provide a supportive platform to celebrate your loved ones life and achievements through eulogies, visual retrospectives with photographs, and shared stories, ensuring their lasting memory and impact on the community.


The presence of a compassionate community offers invaluable support to a grieving family, making the process more manageable.


Funerals console and unify communities, strengthening bonds and emphasising collective respect for the departed. Recognising the profound significance of funerals helps navigate the complex journey of grief and provides support through life’s most challenging trials. For over a century, our funeral home, established by C.J. Thorn in 1884 and continued through Gillions, has guided thousands of families through grief, offering support.


As Dunedin City’s only family-owned full-service funeral home, we understand the importance of family during times like this, and our family will be standing with you to provide comfort and assistance during your time of sorrow.

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2024 Pet Memorial

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I still remember the heartache of putting our beautiful girl, Keira, to sleep after 15 years with us. We had a deep bond. She travelled with us overseas and to different cities. Her demise was very sudden and came as such a shock. Pets provide unconditional love, happiness, and joy. When that is taken away, there is a void left in their place. They are a loved member of the family. Some may not understand the depth of your grief, but for you, it is real. At Gillions, we have all lost pets. The grieving process cannot be forced or hurried; for some, it can be measured in years. Reaching out to others who have lost pets can help ease the grieving process. Since 2019, we have held an annual pet memorial—a funeral for your pet. We include the elements of a traditional funeral: a musician, celebrant, a slideshow of all the loved pets, a memorial tree, and light refreshments afterwards. Our next pet memorial will be held on Sunday, October 6th, at 2 pm in the Gillions Chapel. Please send your photos to pets@gillions.co.nz by September 30th. If you are unable to attend in person, we will live-stream the service.  "Everything you love will probably be lost, but in the end, love will return in another way." - Franz Kafka (1883-1924)
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